Desperation…bad bad bad. Opportunity…good good good. These are the two extremes of how you can view the very same situations life, kinda like saying “is the glass half empty or half full?”

Life is so much more enjoyable when the glass is half full. Which attitude would a potential employer want the candidate to be thinking: “I need this job or I’ll die a poor beggar in the street…” or “This job would be the perfect opportunity to gain the skills I want while challenging myself.”

Ladies, which would you rather have run through your boyfriend’s mind…”If I don’t marry her, she’ll leave me and I’ll be alone because no one else will love me…” or “If I marry her, we would have such an awesome life together…” No brainer isn’t it?

Short but sweet post today…never do anything out of desperation. The universe works against you when you emit that energy. Things work out much better when you are grateful for the situation as an opportunity. If it’s your only hope, then forget about it. If it’s a chance to enhance an already good life, then go for it!

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